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I Quit Drinking. Suddenly, Alcohol Was Everywhere.

From marketing phrase to actual wine.

This is the first in an occasional series of essays about my experience as a person in recovery. If you came her looking for local news only, scroll up or down and you’ll find it.

It’s easy to laugh, in 2020, about people who drank the fizzy malt beverage Zima in the ’90s, and harder to remember how heavily Zima was marketed to young people as a lighter, sparklier alternative to beer — literally, clear beer.

Read the rest of this post at Medium.

Read an excerpt from my forthcoming book, Quitter: A Memoir of Drinking, Relapse, and Recovery, and preorder your copy here.

This Sunday: Virtual Book Launch for Quitter: A Memoir of Drinking, Relapse, and Recovery!

Virtual Book Launch at Town Hall Seattle in partnership with Elliott Bay Books 

Sunday, June 28, 6pm PST/9pm ET

Join me and Claire Dederer, the Seattle-based author of the memoir Love and Trouble, at 6pm PST on Sunday, June 28 for the livestreamed launch of my book Quitter: A Memoir of Drinking, Relapse, and Recovery, in partnership with Town Hall Seattle and Elliott Bay Books.

Our conversation will be followed by a live Q&A where you can ask me about the topics I discuss in the book, including relapse, the treatment industry, how sobriety changed my outlook on life and work, why “rock bottom” is a lie, how I escaped the implosion of local media, getting beyond shame, and more.

All books purchased through the ticketing link will be signed by me, so grab a copy of the book and reserve your (free) spot now!

Town Hall will also be streaming this event live on their Facebook page.

Read more about Quitter, including advance praise, a synopsis, and a link to an excerpt, here.4

My Book, Quitter: A Memoir of Drinking, Relapse, and Recovery, Comes Out In One Month! Preorder Now, Get It July 7

My book, Quitter: A Memoir of Drinking, Relapse, and Recovery, hits stores on July 7. If you’re interested in reading a book that rejects conventional narratives of addiction and recovery, learning more about why people keep drinking or using drugs even when it’s obvious that they should “just quit,” or learning more about why relapse is such a common part of recovery, preorder Quitter now. In the book, I write about: 

• How my own experience with addiction informs my work as a y journalist who writes about the intersection of homelessness and addiction. I know that no one living on the street in squalid, deplorable conditions woke up one morning and decided they wanted to live that way. No one chooses to be addicted.

• The ways in which the concept of “rock bottom” is a (useful) myth. We like to believe in rock bottom because it gives us a goal and an end point—if a loved one is addicted, then all we have to do is wait for them to hit rock bottom and things will start to improve. But my story, as well as those of countless others, shows that there is no true “rock bottom,” except death.

• Relapse, not as failure, but as a learning experience and an integral part of most people’s story. It’s comforting to believe that the story of addiction is a straight line: From addiction to rock bottom to recovery. But most people don’t “get it” in one shot. The treatment and recovery industry has not sufficiently grappled with this fact, and misleads people struggling with addiction (and their families) by promising recovery without teaching people how to handle relapse.

• What it was like coming of age in the early ’90s and working in the male-dominated alt-weekly world through the last gasps of its heyday, before jumping ship in the late 2000s to start a career as an online journalist that led to the site you’re reading now.

“Journalist Barnett debuts with an intense account of her alcoholism, denial, and, ultimately, redemption. . . . Barnett’s snappy prose carries the reader through several rounds of rehab before the final one sticks, pulling no punches as she goes. Emotionally devastating and self-aware, this cautionary tale about substance abuse is a worthy heir to Cat Marnell’s How to Murder Your Life.”” —Publisher’s Weekly, starred review

Book description:

A startlingly frank memoir of one woman’s struggles with alcoholism and recovery, with essential new insights into addiction and treatment

Erica C. Barnett had her first sip of alcohol when she was thirteen, and she quickly developed a taste for drinking to oblivion with her friends. In her late twenties, her addiction became inescapable. Volatile relationships, blackouts, and unsuccessful stints in detox defined her life, with the vodka bottles she hid throughout her apartment and offices acting as both her tormentors and closest friends.

By the time she was in her late thirties, Erica Barnett had run the gauntlet of alcoholism. She had recovered and relapsed time and again, but after each new program or detox center would find herself far from rehabilitated. “Rock bottom,” Barnett writes, “is a lie.” It is always possible, she learned, to go lower than your lowest point. She found that the terms other alcoholics used to describe the trajectory of their addiction–“rock bottom” and “moment of clarity”–and the mottos touted by Alcoholics Anonymous, such as “let go and let God” and “you’re only as sick as your secrets”–didn’t correspond to her experience and could actually be detrimental.

With remarkably brave and vulnerable writing, Barnett expands on her personal story to confront the dire state of addiction in America, the rise of alcoholism in American women in the last century, and the lack of rehabilitation options available to addicts. At a time when opioid addiction is a national epidemic and one in twelve Americans suffers from alcohol abuse disorder, Quitter is essential reading for our age and an ultimately hopeful story of Barnett’s own hard-fought path to sobriety.

“A beautifully told story of one woman’s descent into darkness; a rigorously researched exploration of the causes and treatments of alcohol abuse; a furious howl of pain. Erica C. Barnett has written a female story of addiction that moves beyond clichés and accepted truths. I loved this book, in all its raging glory.”—Claire Dederer, author of Love and Trouble

Reviews

“Journalist Barnett debuts with an intense account of her alcoholism, denial, and, ultimately, redemption. . . . Barnett’s snappy prose carries the reader through several rounds of rehab before the final one sticks, pulling no punches as she goes. Barnett doesn’t skimp on her life’s lows (she goes to an interview drunk, and shoplifts wine) of how her ever-worsening problem caused her to lose her health, her job, and many of her friends, and alienate her family. . . . Emotionally devastating and self-aware, this cautionary tale about substance abuse is a worthy heir to Cat Marnell’s How to Murder Your Life.”
Publishers Weekly (starred review)

“A Seattle-based political reporter recounts her tumultuous, nearly deadly dance with the bottle. . . . Barnett rises to the challenge with a witty, self-deprecating, sometimes snide voice. . . . If you’re in the mood for a well-written, relatable, rock-bottom recovery memoir, this will hit the spot.”
—Kirkus Reviews

“I can’t think of another memoir that captures the nightmare of drinking relapse like this one. Erica Barnett’s tale is brutal, maddening, and beautiful. Quitter will give hope to anyone afraid they can’t ever get this thing. Hang in there. You just might.”
—Sarah Hepola, New York Times bestselling author of Blackout

“[Barnett] paints a grotesque portrait of the horror show that is alcoholism with great skill and style. I tore through this book.”
—Cat Marnell, New York Times bestselling author of How to Murder Your Life

“Barnett writes with seismic clarity on the baffling nature of the early morning vodka trip and the anguish and relief it produces in equal measure.” — Erin Lee Carr, author of All That You Leave Behind; director of I Love You, Now Die and At the Heart of Gold

“Quitter is all these things: a beautifully told story of one woman’s descent into darkness; a rigorously researched exploration of the causes and treatments of alcohol abuse; a furious howl of pain. Erica C. Barnett has written a female story of addiction that moves beyond clichés and accepted truths. I loved this book, in all its raging glory.”
—Claire Dederer, author of Love and Trouble

“Barnett writes with seismic clarity on the baffling nature of the early morning vodka trip and the anguish and relief it produces in equal measure. This book understands what it is like to fail but have that last bit of hope. Remarkable writing on a disease that effects so many. Quitter is the new manual for those seeking a recovered life.”
—Erin Lee Carr, author of All That You Leave Behind; director of I Love You, Now Die and At the Heart of Gold

“Erica Barnett’s Quitter is a harrowing, deeply truthful account of her long journey through alcoholism and repeated relapse—an addiction consequence so common that Barnett calls it ‘almost inevitable,’ yet one to which most treatment methodologies pay scant attention. Barnett doesn’t flinch in showing the impact of her ever-worsening relapses on her health, career, and even her most steadfast relationships, and she holds herself to account while also making it clear how the treatment system failed her. In addition to being a riveting, suspenseful read, Quitter will also start important conversations about how addicts can best be helped at all stages of the recovery cycle. An essential addition to literature of addiction.”
—Kristi Coulter, author of Nothing Good Can Come From This

“Erica Barnett’s Quitter is an impeccably researched, long-overdue examination of America’s billion-dollar addiction industry and its decidedly mixed record of success. Drawing from her own painful experience in countless hospitals, rehabs and treatment centers, Barnett bravely tackles the limitations and sacred cows of the 12-step-movement while also acknowledging the vital role it has played in rescuing thousands of addicts and alcoholics from desperate cycles of despair. In her hard-won quest for sobriety she discovers that it’s possible for even the most hopeless addicts to recover if they are willing to give up pre-conceived notions about what recovery looks like and how to get there.”
—Maer Roshan, author of Courtney Comes Clean